Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Dream big. Be unreasonable

Another great article I'd read recently online.

From http://www.motivation-for-dreamers.com/dream-big.html

Dedicated to anyone with dreams.

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Dream Big – Introduction

George Bernard Shaw wrote that “the reasonable man adapts himself to the world: the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man.”

One thing I have come to know by experience is that if something is widely accepted by people then you should doubt it. Just because something is “common sense” and “common knowledge” does not make it the truth.

Looking through history, and even in contemporary times, it is clear that the people that have made a difference and excelled above their generation are those that challenged the general view of things during their time.

They are people who ask why and find the answer before they accept something as gospel truth. If they do not find a satisfactory answer they change their perceptions and views in accordance with what they have found to be the truth.

Dream Big – take a lesson from history

A little over one hundred years ago, it was a generally held view that you could not catch voices from the wind and hear people speak who were hundreds of miles away. It took the invention of the radio to challenge this view and to change the world. Today, you can not only hear that person, you can see them as easily as though they were seated next to you. The internet and television have made this possible.

Who would have believed in the eighteen hundreds that man would be able to fly faster than any bird in the nineteen hundreds and beyond? The Wright brothers did. They challenged the view of their day and dared to dream. They were unreasonable men.

All the people that have changed the world in a big way were unreasonable people. Being unreasonable is being senseless, not level-headed, illogical or impractical. Sensibility, practicality, level-headedness and logic are good qualities no doubt and qualities that are invaluable to any dreamer as they pursue their dreams.

But while it is good to be like that when you are actually working on your dream, it is not advisable when it comes to defining your ultimate dream.

Dream Big – be unreasonable and senseless

Your ultimate dream should be unreasonable and senseless. If it is not, you are not dreaming big enough. When you have a dream that is big enough it will be totally mind-blowing. It will be one that will challenge you and scare you at the same time. It will be a dream that is so huge you will get excited and question your own sanity at the same time.

Your senses enable you to see, smell, hear, taste and touch. The senses exist in the physical realm in that they are designed to perceive the physical environment around you. So your senses cannot perceive things that are of a mental or spiritual nature.

Dream Big – ignore your senses

That is exactly the problem for us: we are too sensible with our dreams. We plan according to what we perceive by our senses to be the truth. We plan according to how much money we see in our bank accounts or pockets, what we hear people say about us and our situation or the economy, and the resources and things we can touch as being available to us. We are restricted by our senses.

Yet, Our senses were never designed to perceive spiritual, mental or abstract things. Our dreams begin with our thoughts, which are a mental process. Our thoughts are or should be superior to our senses. Whatever is manifested in the physical realm to the senses begins in the mental or spiritual realm.

Dream Big – trust your thoughts

If you are a dreamer you have to place more trust in your thoughts than in your senses. You must be unreasonable and senseless. Then your mind will be free to dream and to explore the possibilities of your potential.

Free yourself from your current physical limitations such as how much money you have, what papers you have, your current job, where you live and what you own. Your dream should be illogical and definitely not practical. If you have a clear idea right from the start as to how you would achieve your dream with every detail worked out, it is flawed.

If you have a dream that is big enough, you will not know how you will achieve it all when you start. Sure, you will have an idea of where to start, but not the whole picture. The “how” is not important, only the “what.” It’s cliché, but take heed to the saying: “where there is a will, there is a way.”

Dream Big – the acid test

Here is an acid test for your dream: if most people agree with you that your dream is achievable and that it is reasonable, chances are it is not worth dreaming about. If, on the other hand, when you tell people your dream they look at you like you are a case in the fruitcake sanitarium, or locally we would say a “Chainama” case, then you are probably on the right track. Do not be limited by an inability to see beyond your present circumstances. Do not be controlled by your senses.

Dream Big – understand the inside-out paradigm

As a dreamer, you must realise that life is lived from the inside-out and not from the outside-in. It all starts in the mind. That is the real battlefield of life. That is where the war is raging. If you can create your ideal life in your mind and live that life like a reality everyday in your mind, you have won the battle. It will have no choice but to manifest itself in the physical.

Success, riches, happiness, fulfillment, recognition and all, do not come as a surprise to dreamers when they get those things - because they have been living it in their minds all along. It had to happen. The physical world cannot resist the spiritual and mental world. In the hierarchy of life it was designed so. One has to obey the other. The physical has to obey the spiritual and mental.

Dream Big – conclusion

The spiritual and mental aspects of a man are limitless, boundless, free in every respect and more powerful than we could ever understand. They are unreasonable and senseless.

In the book of Hebrews this principle is well illustrated because “through faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God, so that things which are seen were not made of things which do appear.” Learn to utilize this power within you. Be unreasonable.

You are all you can be. Go on and be it.

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Be the master of your dream.

Live your dream!

周杰伦背后的故事

在Facebook看到这个note。
看了很有感觉。
名人背后总有非常人能够想像得到的故事。
成功并非绝对的。
不灭的坚持及热忱确是成功的关键。
花你的少许时间,读读这篇文章吧!

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或許您不喜歡周杰倫
或是很納悶他到底為什麼那麼紅

看完或許你會很感動
對生命 親情 教養會有更不同的看法
祝福您


周杰倫來自破裂家庭「媽媽用愛 付出一切」


周杰倫,萬千青少年為他的歌聲而癡迷、崇拜的一位天皇巨
星,對母親葉惠美有著似
海深情,因為在他最孤獨最無助的時候,是媽媽用溫 暖 愛的臂膀支撐著他。所以周
杰倫一直說,「只要媽媽高興,我願意為她付出一切!」


音樂天才破裂的家!

周杰倫出生於1979 年1月,媽媽葉惠美是台北淡江小學的美術老師,爸爸是淡
中學的物理老師。周杰倫4歲讀幼稚園時,葉惠美把他送到淡江山葉幼兒音樂班學鋼
琴。平時活潑好動的小杰倫一站到鋼琴面前,竟是出奇的安靜,聽老師彈奏一遍自己
就能復彈出來,老師告訴葉惠美,這孩子很有天分!


為了培養杰倫的音樂素質,葉惠美主張拿出家裏全部積蓄為杰倫買一架好鋼
琴,請最好的鋼琴老師為杰倫輔導。而杰倫的爸爸則認為不必這麼認真,男孩子
嘛,隨意一點,沒必要拿出全部積蓄投資。最後,葉惠美還是背著丈夫為杰倫買了一
架鋼琴,弄得杰倫爸很不高興。小學三年級時,杰倫偶然聽到世界名曲《天鵝
湖》,被大提琴憂傷淒美的曲調迷住了,葉惠美沒和丈夫商量又為杰倫購買了大提
琴。


杰倫爸對妻子葉惠美「孤注一擲」的做法嗤之以鼻,他回家就指責葉惠美的不
是,家庭裡的溫馨越來越少,爭吵越來越多。杰倫不知道爸爸為什麼總要找媽媽吵
鬧,他用自己稚嫩的詩行記下他的困惑和傷感:


從小到大只有媽媽的溫暖為什麼我爸爸那麼兇


如果真的我有一雙翅膀兩雙翅膀隨時出發


偷偷出發我一定帶走我媽媽……


這傷感的詩行杰倫後來為它譜了曲,就是那首令萬千歌迷傷感的《爸,我回來
了》。


周杰倫初中二年級時,父母終於離婚。 14歲的周杰倫寫道:「爸爸媽媽彼此沒有
愛,難道這就是生命的真諦?」沉默、倔強和叛逆已經塑造了另一個周杰倫。


世人不識君苦悶中的徘徊


周杰倫有音樂天賦,但功課卻很糟。高中聯考總分只有 100多分,連普通高中也
沒考上,前途一片黯淡,母子倆相對無言,難道兒子就這麼完了?恰好淡江中學第一
屆音樂班正在招生,周杰倫考上了。


因為彈得一手好鋼琴,拉得一手好大提琴,又時常活躍在籃球場上,周杰倫成為
許多女同學關注和談論的對象。但是,周杰倫卻常常面無表情,很少露出一絲笑
容,除了音樂成績出類拔萃以外,其它科目成績幾乎全線紅字,老師們紛紛認為他智
力低下,他的英語老師甚至直言不諱對葉惠美說周杰倫有智力障礙。葉惠美陷入了深
深的思索,她還是決定要把杰倫培養成才,至少當一個鋼琴師吧。葉惠美沒有指責杰
倫,她認為杰倫走到今天冷漠、叛逆的地步是家庭的不和睦造成的,並且深信自己的
孩子沒有智力障礙,於是她嚐試用姐弟式的關心來「馴服」周杰倫,規定自己「三
不」:不嘮叨、不指責、不脅迫兒子。


果然如老師們的預測,周杰倫沒有考上大學。葉惠美多方打聽後,鼓勵杰倫去考
台北大學音樂系,結果他沒有被錄取。周杰倫咬著牙考第二次,還是失敗了。媽媽和
外婆外公都為杰倫的前途擔憂,這孩子究竟將來能幹什麼呢


極度迷惘的周杰倫無所事事,只好等待服海軍兵役,這期間,竟得了僵直性脊椎
炎,令人沮喪的是這種病無法根治,只能靠藥物緩解,到了晚期全身甚至會像殭屍一
樣僵硬,也可能導致癱瘓。葉惠美和外婆說起杰倫就垂淚。


母愛呵護下一飛沖天


病緩解一些後,周杰倫到一家餐廳打工,作為端盤工的他因為時常打翻菜盤,每
個月的工資幾乎被扣掉了一半。餐廳中有一台鋼琴,一次閒暇時周杰倫彈了一曲《肖
邦舞曲》,把老闆驚呆了,老闆靈機一動,叫周杰倫不要端盤子了,就在餐廳彈
琴,然後請來電視台記者炒作,不但使得餐廳生意火爆起來,還節約了一大筆請鋼琴
師的費用。


葉惠美感受到了杰倫的音樂潛能,她替兒子在台北星光電視台娛樂節目「超猛新
人王」報了名。周杰倫精心創作了一首歌曲《夢有翅膀》,但他對自己的演唱實在沒
信心,請了一位歌手演唱。演唱者不能理解他的曲風,而他的鋼琴伴奏又顯得怪
異,弄得台下聽眾噓聲一片,初出茅廬的一場表演徹底搞砸了。


葉惠美急了,性格內向的她鼓起勇氣找到了主持人吳宗憲,把《夢有翅膀》的曲
譜拿給他看。吳宗憲當時是台灣阿爾發音樂公司的老闆,他對周杰倫的第一印象並不
好,應付似的拿起曲譜掃了一眼,卻是眼睛一亮,歌譜不僅抄寫得工工整整,而且譜
得十分複雜。慧眼的他立即改變了主意:「這孩子還可以,明天叫他到我公司來上
班!」


周杰倫進了音樂公司任音樂製作助理,在媽媽的鼓勵下,每天主動幫同事們買盒
飯,大家對這個沉默寡言但又勤快的小伙子有了好感。而葉惠美總擔心杰倫冷漠而倔
強,又不善言辭,生怕他無意中把老闆和員工們得罪了,於是常常在下班時間站在公
司門口,準備一些可口的比薩、炸雞送給員工,請他們包涵杰倫。一來二往,葉惠美
對公司員工比周杰倫還熟悉,同事們都知道周杰倫有一個好媽媽。


周杰倫很快創作出大量的歌曲,但讓吳宗憲感到不可理解的是,他創作的歌詞總
是怪怪的,音樂圈內幾乎沒有人喜歡。一次,周杰倫又拿著自己的得意之作送給吳宗
憲審讀。這次吳宗憲連看都不看,便將那首歌曲揉成一團,隨手丟進身邊的垃圾桶裡
去了。周杰倫的眼淚禁不住流了出來。


是放棄還是繼續?媽媽每天來公司門口已經成為一道風景線,如果放棄,太對不
起媽媽了,周杰倫硬著頭皮支撐著,他吃住都在辦公室,以每天一首歌的速度進行創
作。葉惠美每天晚上都到公司看望杰倫,望著日漸消瘦的兒子,她強忍著不讓自己的
淚水流出來,儘量說一些鼓勵的開心的話,然後將杰倫換下的髒衣服拿回去洗乾
淨。一連一個多月,吳宗憲每天早上八點鐘上班時,總能準時見到周杰倫新的作
品。終於,他被這位小伙子的勤奮和天賦深深地感動了,他「嗅」出了周杰倫的歌曲
隱隱有一種味道,答應找歌手演唱他創作的歌曲。


吳宗憲將周杰倫的《眼淚知道》推薦給天王歌星劉德華,劉德華看了一眼就拒絕
了。不久,又將他的《雙節棍》推薦給火爆華語歌壇的張惠妹,沒料想,張惠妹也毫
不猶豫地拒絕了。吳宗憲決定給周杰倫最後一次機會,讓他自己演唱自己創作的歌
曲,如果這樣也不行,他就只好請周杰倫走人了!他將周杰倫叫到辦公室,十分鄭重
地說:「阿倫,給你 10天的時間,如果你能寫出50首歌,而我可以從中挑出10首,那
麼我就幫你出唱片。」


老闆的話刺激得周杰倫興奮不已,他打電話告訴媽媽後就跑到街上買回一大箱方
便麵。他想,就是拼了命,也要做最後的搏擊。


周杰倫熬紅了雙眼如約寫出了50 首歌曲,而且每一首都寫得結構合理,譜得工工
整整。吳宗憲終於有了讚許的笑容,他挑選出10首,2001年初製成了周杰倫的第一張
專輯《杰倫》。


公司對這張唱片沒抱多大希望,能收回製作成本就算不錯了。然而《杰倫》橫空
出世後,猶如一場猛烈的颱風橫掃台灣,很快被歌迷搶購一空。《杰倫》一舉奪得台
灣當年最佳流行音樂演唱專輯、最佳製作人和最佳作曲人三項大獎。《杰倫》的成功
讓公司始料不及,讓台灣的歌星們大跌眼鏡,紛紛詢問哪裏冒出來的周杰倫?如果說
第一張專輯小有成就的話,那麼,周杰倫第二張專輯《范特西》已經形成了風暴,席
捲了大陸、港台、東南亞整個華語歌壇,各種大獎紛至沓來


周杰倫終於成功了,他深深明白,沒有媽媽黑暗中明燈般的溫暖,他支撐不到今
天,媽媽為他一直未再嫁,點點滴滴都是舐犢之情。他將所有的收入都交給媽媽掌
管,儘管自己有了公寓,每個週末依然回家,同媽媽、外婆一起享受天倫之樂。葉惠
美更是百感交集,當年丈夫的譏諷、老師的搖頭、生活的艱辛都隨風而去。


葉惠美退休後,周杰倫總擔心媽媽寂寞,只要在台灣,他都回家同媽媽住在一
起。週末時,他會約上媽媽一起去看午夜場的電影,媽媽喜歡看經典片,周杰倫就陪
著看,而周杰倫喜歡看的前衛片,葉惠美也陪著兒子看,幸福的暖流縈繞在母子心
間。周杰倫的第四張專輯就叫《葉惠美》,這是兒子獻給母親的禮物。

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怎样?有feel吧?